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The LinkedIn Handshake

Source: Bill Farquharson, October 13, 2025

Li Handshake

Imagine working for weeks to reach a decision-maker. You finally get that moment—shake hands—and say, “Hello.” Then… nothing. You’ve got no words.

That’s LinkedIn.

We all work hard to make the connection. But once they accept, most of us have no clue what to do next.

What should we say?
How often should we reach out?
When is it okay to make a pitch?

Allow me to pass along some expert advice from Madeline Farquharson, the brilliant UK-based daughter whose advised is so valued, we record every call so as not to miss a thing:

“Be a meaningful contributor.”

We call these gems Madi-ology.

Being a meaningful contributor means sharing relevant, valuable, thought-out content. Curate smart articles. Post with purpose. Send direct messages that actually matter to your new contact—not just fluff.

Consistency matters. Thoughtfulness matters more.

Want to stand out? Tell stories. Share how you solved a real customer problem. Post photos. Add testimonials. Celebrate ideas, not just low prices.

These efforts build a reputation. And once you’ve earned credibility, then you can ask for the meeting.

Too many reps treat the connection like the win. It’s not. It’s the beginning.

With front doors locked and customers working from everywhere, LinkedIn is the new knock at the door. But it’s what comes after the virtual handshake that gets you invited inside.

Watch Bill present this week's sale tip


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The Sales Vault is available on a monthly subscription basis, normally at a no-brainer monthly price of $45/participant, but… GMA members can take advantage of an exclusive offer: FREE membership for 30 days followed by a discounted monthly subscription price of just $40/participant. 

Bill has been a friend of GMA for many years and is, no doubt, known to our members as a top sales trainer and content creator for the graphic arts.

Other Vault resources:

  • NEW: Replays—Insider exclusive recordings of Office Hours sales discussions
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Check out the Sales Vault!

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